Here's the problem: Said ok for the roommate to live with me temporarily, roommate has a cat, I forgot she had a cat, said ok, I'm not a cat person but maybe I could live with the cat temporarily. I was wrong. The cat is driving me crazy. Cat goes everywhere, on the kitchen table, kitchen counters, on top of the fridge, linen closet, dresser drawers. I've just about had it. I said its ok for the cat to roam in the daytime and I'll keep the bedroom doors closed but asked my roommate to keep the cat in her room at night so me and the kids can sleep with my bedroom door open. She's offended, said cats are nocturnal and have to roam. Am I being unfair? Can the cat not stay in her room at night? Can you train cats to stay out of certain areas or do they have to have the run of the house?