I am not asking for your last name I am interested in did you change your name when you got married. My sons are all getting married this year and 1 DIL is changing her name to his 1 is adding hers to his and 1 is keeping her name. When I got married many years ago you didn't have a choice. What was your reason for doing what you did and what have you done with your childrens names. Just trying to understand their reasons.