I know we've discussed these before. Can you guys clarify something for me, especially in you are in Ontario. If you have a S&D, are there also showers? People are asking my DD when her shower will be because they want to come. Her maid of honour says she's just too busy to throw a shower and they've had a S&D. DD isn't really keen on a shower but she's getting embarassed by the questions. The other members of the wedding party live out of town.